Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

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Jennifer goes to the podium first. Her goal is to learn to love through change. She needs to learn to let go of her need to control, feel comfortable and always be right. She would like to replace it with freedom. She says she’s trying to step outside of the box but she’s still analyzing too much. She thinks she’s not loveable and that her feelings don’t matter. She says she’s not growing up and that keeps her from reaching her goal. She always thought it was Lou that needed to grow up. She hasn’t been claims her life but gives herself a B plus. When the LifeCoaches ask why and she says she’s going to claim her life and marriage. Jennifer says she’s claiming her adulthood, her marriage and ehr daughter and herself right now. Katie says Jenny has started going with the flow. Michael says she’s happy. Lou says she smiling and keep up the work. Coaches ask if she comes back or just go home from the Houseguests. Jenny has made solid progress but has lot of forgiveness to do. Rhonda gives Jenn a B plus and she thanks herself.

Troy’s goal is to claim a war torn marriage. He’s changed that to make himself happy. He still needs to recognize triggers. He needs to put himself first and ease up on himself. Rhonda would like him to start speaking up. Rhonda asked if Troy has accepted himself, not fully, and have he forgiven himself and he says he is on the way. Yale wants Troy to yell out like Tarzan and he is embarrassed. They tell him to pull it out of himself and he stands there very embarrassed and tense looking.