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Ilanya: The reality is you make CHOICES and you pick and choose who you talk about, and if you talk with Jill about Allison, you’ll do it with another about one of the other housemates. Isn’t it convenient you don’t’ remember what you said? It’s not about you, TJ, it’s about what you bring to the table and the energy you bring. This group from day one has been dishonest. Christina, when is the last time you said something not to their face? Christina says, to TJ. She tells TJ it’s hard to talk to you, you always make it about yourself. Ilanya asks, is that all you said about her? Christina: I’ve said she’s annoying. Every time I talk to you it’s a 45 minute conversation all about you. Ilanya says thank you. TJ says she does not want to say anything to their face, she doesn’t want to go there. TJ: I wanted to heal myself, I felt so rejected I didn’t know what to do, and I’ve talked to my life coach about this. Ilanya says you, like everyone else on some level, has contributed, as have all the others, to the imbalance and funky energy in this house. You try to take the back door out and say because you spoke to your life coach, you don’t have a responsibility to talk to the other women in this house. Allison, is there anything you have said to someone about them not to their face? Allison: I really don’t think there is. I do realize I’m the most judgmental person in the room but I’m the hardest on myself and therefore based on the definition of not placing judgment I won’t do it to others. Based on what I’ve learned, I judge everyone. And with Jill or TJ or anyone, I don’t hold you in judgment. Ilanya says to all the women that they’re not willing to tell the real truth. New stuff, old stuff that they’re resigned to, it’s in the air, you need to have those conversations today. Speak it, say it, do it. Allison is angry to have to do this on her birthday, feels it is ruined. Ilanya says to her if you can’t do it with these 5 women, you never will with your mother or brother. Cake ain’t gonna fix it! She thinks you sit in judgment of her (Jill). Have a deeper conversation and heal. Ilanya leaves and tells Allison to have that conversation about her feelings with the ladies.
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