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Who is this Mr. Love-alot?...is he real?

I think so..

She has chronicled the relationship in her blog to some degree. Never alot of details and of course she wouldn't and shouldn't divulge his name...

I think she shares because she too is still a work in progress and still struggles with change. Good change, bad change, anticipation, love, rejection, heartache, hope... The things most of us go through at one time or another..

I'm sure she'll key us in before long through another blog entry regarding what happens..

I don't think it's a good sign though when someone 'needs space'.
Look beneath the last entry of her blog.. I know at least the previous one is there and perhaps all of them.

She made mention of him at least a few months ago..

KPW1956 wrote:

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I think it might be Mr. Love a Lot's daughter.

Oh, I see. Thanks.

My heart goes out to Rhonda. I personally think she is a super life coach, although, I've never seen very many. I also see her as a kind and sensitive person.

I was so happy when she talked about this new man in her life. This new blog is sad....there is one thing I know about and that is ending relationships. There is nothing more devastating than having the man you are in love with, say that he needs space away from you. There's never been a good outcome from those words, in my life that is.

What I find curious is that Rhonda claims she was thinking the same thing just before Mr. Love-a-Lot said those words. Maybe I'm strange, but, I have never wanted to take time to be alone away from the man I am in love with, even when I have been in long term relationships and have been spending most all of my time with this person for 5 years...I still wanted and longed to see my love as much as possible. I savored every weekend that we could talk, share , laugh, and make love... so I don't get why you would want to not be with them.

Any theories out there? Do you see this "I need my space" excuse just like when someone says, "It's not you, it's me" or "I'm just not ready to date just one person right now" and then they meet and marry someone else in 3 months. I guess I'm skeptical.

Rhonda has gone through two divorces, maybe she was seeing some things that made her want to step back a little. I'm not sure if the child was the issue, but, I do know that there is nothing more annoying than to see a father of a spoiled child who refuses to discipline the child and who allows the child to constantly interrupt adult conversations and who sets no limits to what the child cannot do. Sometimes you see this with divorced parents, because they claim they feel guilty.

I agree Debby.

Why is "Mr. Love Alot" a bad guy...he's just NOT that into her....