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I found Cassie's dramatics and whining to be so exhausting. Her pursuit of this boy and his family was wrong. Had I been the adoptive Mom I may not have lied to my son but would have moved heaven and earth to keep this wack job away from him.
She chose to use drugs before, during and after the birth
She chose to not use birth control
She chose to give the baby up for adoption
She probably (from her addict days) has little cognitive memory of exactly WHAT the adoption terms were.

It was the responsibility of the adoptive parents to keep that child safe not to pacify or welcome Cassie into their lives. Her being adopted by them was not part of the deal. To show up at their home loaded for 4 years after the birth borders on criminal.
I believed the show really erred when they supported the reunion. What is occuring is too personal and far to emotionally damaging to all involved. Cassie is a selfish whiney child that got her way on TV.