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No one is saying that sex is bad or that Christina does not deserve to have a sex life. Everyone seems to be upset because it is implied that she broke up a marriage to get a relationship. That after graduating as a woman of honor, she shouldn't have done somthing like that.
Just remember, that this is a RUMOR, not a documented fact.

yes, I agree with Parker. The other thing is that Christina wasn't showing much commitment to her living her life in an honorable way. It was more important that she get her priorities in order and work on her future with her son and THEN let relationships enter the picture... and when that happens concentrate on keeping them well grounded and based on realistic common goals.

Christina had alot of inconsistencies going on... It would have been easy for her to fall back into her old ways...and enjoy the attention she aroused in men...

It was just sad to see hear that she got so distracted even before she got out of the house...and all that she was aiming for goal wise...was for naught. I'm not without hope that it may only be a setback for her.... She did seem to have some things going for her. She didn't seem to be on drugs..and she seemed to be a quick study. But I think she wants things too easily...

If the rumor is true... then additional rumors may be as well. I saw rumors that the fling with the cameraman didn't last very long and that she had gone back to N.C. after a short stay in L.A. (and a falling out with the ex hooker that S.O. set her up with..) I did see her myspace site before she closed it. Alot of men were still putting very suggestive replys on it...and some posters on this or another site said that right before she shut the site down she had some suggestive pictures of herself on it.

She needs to work on developing appropriate relationships... that's the key thing... AFTER getting her life and priorities in order... # 1 should be her son!

honor or no honor. sex or no sex. the houseguests and the production staff sign contracts not to fraternize with each other, let alone talk to each other. she broke the rules. she broke her contract. if she has been cut out by the life coaches and the other house guests she deserves it. she is lucky she isn't being sued by bumin murray for breach of contract.

Concerning the breech of contract that ladies sign not to have conversation or interaction with the crew or production people, I am sure that the men and women that work there sign a contract NOT to socialize with the ladies. They are to act as if they are not being filmed all the time, which would be so hard to do, but the ladies say they get used to it. In my opinion, both the ladies and the camermen or production workers, have breeched the contract, and who knows, maybe they have been fired!

If Christine and the cameraman wanted to have a relationship, they should have waited until the man was separated from his wife, and filing for divorce. That would have been what a "woman of honor" would have done.

What I find strange is that Christine has never been invited back to the house for any of the others graduations or I can't recall her name ever being mentioned again. There has to be a reason for that. Jessica and TJ have been asked back, why not Christine? hmmmmmm

I don't think Christina was particularly close to any of the other hg's. The only one close in age to her was Jessica.

We must remember that we should assume that these are still all rumors...and treat them as such. I doubt the show is going to corroborate anything...

As Jill said according to her chat session the other week that those questions should be directed to Christina.. (She wasn't going to say anything..)

Maybe the whole Christina and cameraman issue really has nothing to do with we the viewers... We don't always know how the ladies ultimately choose to use the tools and resources they gain while in the house. Some choose to throw them away... or aren't ready for them.

Frankly Christina's story didn't have alot of impact on me... because I couldn't very well relate to her.

I do hope she learned something while at the SO house.

honeyb wrote:

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What I find strange is that Christine has never been invited back to the house for any of the others graduations or I can't recall her name ever being mentioned again. There has to be a reason for that. Jessica and TJ have been asked back, why not Christine? hmmmmmm:unsure:

I'm thinking Jessica comes to graduations because she is in CA and because of her close friendships with the lady graduating. So, I don't think she is being asked as much as she is the one who asks to attend. TJ came from Colorado (?) probably because it was her girl Jill who was graduating. I think both these women pay their way to attend the graduations. Christina was really not close to any of the women, and she may not be financially able to make the trips to CA.