Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

"Don't be impressed with the quality of man who wants to sleep with you. Be impressed with the quality of man who wants to know you." - Dr. Stan

I absolutely loved that statement from Dr. Stan.

"Your judgement points to your fears." - Rhonda

"It's the ability to deal with difficult times that's going to give you strength." - Dr. Stan

"If you can treat him like that (abandon him), you must have done it to yourself. There's something in you somewhere that you've abandoned" (paraphrase) - Iyanla

"How you've treated his heart is how you've treated your own heart" - Iyanla

The above are about Lisa's treatment of her husband.

"Your most challenging obstacle becomes your greatest teacher" - Iyanla

"Your greatest adversary is your most powerful teacher" - Iyanla

My favorites have been:

When you judge someone you become the victim.

If it's only a number [on the scale] then why do you give it so much power?

When you feel resentment it's because something [or someone] is pointing out that you aren't taking responsiblity for something you need to address.

and so on and so forth....

LOVEMYSO wrote:

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My favorites have been:

When you judge someone you become the victim.

If it's only a number [on the scale] then why do you give it so much power?

When you feel resentment it's because something [or someone] is pointing out that you aren't taking responsiblity for something you need to address.

and so on and so forth....

WOW! Good ones LOVEMYSO. The "scale" one is like one in reponse to a guy who doesn't want to commit to his live-in girlfriend....

"If marriage is just a piece of paper, so why don't you just have it (the paper)"