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lisa is like denise was acting out to get attention she does not know any better i believe she is a follower and took the molestation because she was afraid of what would happen she is a baby who wants love and protection.

What did Lisa mean when she said that she allowed her girlfriend's brother to molest her?

I think that means she was passive and scared and didn't fight and scratch his eyes out?

I also think you make some good points dsinmi. After seeing the show today, she still seemed totally "fake" even through her secret. I know everyone reacts differently to trauma, however, she was so bubbly and smiley and "okay" again immediately afterward. This is very puzzling to me. So, is it just her mechanism and it is so ingrained, or is she really not who and what she says she is? I suppose more time is needed to really (if ever) make that call. But it does make me feel like another woman who really needed the opportunity to be in the SOH didn't get it.

I was watching Lisa and almost believing "hey maybe she is finally getting it" then when they started the "NO, NO, NO" exercise and she started her crying, I knew this was part of her show. That crying is not sincere crying. She sounded so fake with it. I still don't think this molesting as a child has made her the way she is. I think it's her parents always babying her and not letting her grow up.

I cannot stand Lisa. She seems very fake and her big secret today with Rhonda seemed staged.
Lisa has been rude to everybody in the house. She seems to really pick on Christina.
I also got the impression today that she has been stalker in the past. The way she said that she could not take no for answer in relationships.