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wish wrote:

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Never liked her boyfriend i believe he was emotionally abusive her blogs seemed like she had to beg for scraps of his love.

I think Rhonda's description of Mr. Love-a-Lot varies quite a bit over the course of the relationship.

Has anyone read her latest blog from just a few days ago? She hooked up with her ex-husband that she had not heard from in a LONG time. I'm once again not sure what to think. I find this quite odd really.

It sounds as if Mr. Love-a-Lot is allowing her to speak to his daughter again.

Does anyone think it's a little odd that TWO fathers wouldn't let Rhonda have a relationship with their daughters after their relationships ended? I wonder if there's something wrong with her mothering skills. We saw how she treated some of the house guests. Remember (Kelly) who she put in a straight jacket. Maybe she was too rough or too clingy to the little girls.

I'm also confused about who left whom. It sounded like Mr. Love-a-lot broke up with her, but she says she's the one who left him. Hmmmm....I'm confused...are any of you?

Sistine wrote:

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Does anyone think it's a little odd that TWO fathers wouldn't let Rhonda have a relationship with their daughters after their relationships ended? I wonder if there's something wrong with her mothering skills. We saw how she treated some of the house guests. Remember (Kelly) who she put in a straight jacket. Maybe she was too rough or too clingy to the little girls.

I'm also confused about who left whom. It sounded like Mr. Love-a-lot broke up with her, but she says she's the one who left him. Hmmmm....I'm confused...are any of you? :blink:

You took the words out of my mouth. I thought the same thing. Of course, it could have been that the fathers were just done with the relationship and wanted to sever all ties, or it could be that the fathers weren't comfortable with Rhonda continuing to influence the girls. Who knows. I do know from hearing many professionals say that young children should not become involoved with their parents boyfriend/girlfriend until there is a very solid relationship between the adults and the liklihood of it being long term is secure. I'm not sure how long Rhonda and her boyfriend were together before she got close to his daughter, but, Rhonda had to know how important it is to wait for the right time period.

I'm also confused about how the breakup happened. Her blog seems to switch back and forth on that.