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KPW1956 wrote:

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I think her business is based there and was I think before he was even in the picture.

The business appears to be based in Boulder, Co. Which I think is the area where Lisa (older Lisa who was married to Tony) from Season 3 was from. I think one of the other women was from that area too.. I can't think of her name.. She was the Season 3 woman who had ADD and was the first graduate of the season.. (I can't believe I can't remember her name!)

TJ
she's from Denver.

Wasn't Kim (the blonde), from Colorado too?

Debby,

Yeah, You're right. She was. (season 2 Kim)


T/R,
Thanks' for the memory jog.. Of course, It was TJ... You'd think I could have remembered that... My own son goes by a similar nickname of initials.. (BJ) My mentalpause is worse than I thought!

I guess it's been 2 years now since season 2 debuted. My how time flies!

If anyone is interested... Rhonda has a new blog entry.. Posted over the weekend. More of the same..

I sure hope she gets it out of her system soon! I'm very worried about her.
http://www.fearlessliving.org/blog/rhonda

KPW1956 wrote:

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If anyone is interested... Rhonda has a new blog entry.. Posted over the weekend. More of the same..

I sure hope she gets it out of her system soon! I'm very worried about her.

http://www.fearlessliving.org/blog/rhonda

I'm not sure where to start. There are so many strange things about the content on her recent blog. It seems to me as if her version of what happened keeps changing, At first everything was civil. She still thought he was great, etc. She even said that he left the decision up to her. Now it's completely different. Is it just me? Am I reading this wrong? He went from perfect to an emotional abuser...really?

As far as his daughter calling her mommy.....well, that's just plain wrong. His daughter has a living mother, according to previous post. I think Rhonda said she went to some kind of event with Mr. Love-A-Lot and his ex-wife, mother of the child. In my work in family court, I know Judges really dislike it when a child calls someone other than the parent mommy or daddy. Plus, with Rhonda's obvious emotional state, it would be completely inappropiate to allow his daughter to see her, IMO.

I wonder if Rhonda has not had some problems for awhile. If you go back and look at her April 5 blog, you'll see the story she shares about having an emotional breakdown in a movie theatre. Her description of that emotional breakdown and the uncontollable crying even after the movie, concerns me. Maybe there were issues her boyfriend had with her that she is not revealing. JUst wondering.

That whole thing about him not saying thank you. Too petty.

I really do adore Rhonda and always have, but I wonder if the content of her blog could hurt her professionally. I realize everyone is human, but if prospective employers and clients have an image of you as a person who makes good choices, puts her needs as a priorty, is a good conflict resolver and then you see how she is handling this trauma in her personal life, it might make you question her skills. Not to sound cold, but it's true. You would think her sister would caution her a bit about this.

I hope she seeks some help.

Never liked her boyfriend i believe he was emotionally abusive her blogs seemed like she had to beg for scraps of his love.