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http://www.fearlessliving.org/blog/rhonda

Mr Love a Lot got to see Rhonda in her professional mode... He attended and participated in her seminar!

Sounds like it was a positive thing!

WOW didn't know that she was in Toronto! thanks for this update KPW.

Mr. Love-A-Lot I'm sorry but it sounds lame!

Think your right Nadia about him it sounds like Rhonda working hard to please him.

I wonder if "Mr-Love-alot" reads her blogs??
It is a good question to ask if you know what your "partner" does during their workday. And then maybe you can understand what they go through!! I a lucky enough to have the ability to know what my "special person" does and he knows what I do. But sometimes it is still hard to understand!

As for Rhonda "pleasing" her man......she should do what makes her happy.....and by now he should know what the something is!! And vise-versa.....JMO!!

On the other hand......I hope everyone is doing ok and living to the fullest!!

Here is something that I took from Rhonda’s blog that kinda disturbed me.. and wish your right about her trying hard to please him, cause that's what it's sounds and looks to me too from her own writing. If your partner doesn't see you being special for you who are then I'm sorry then maybe he's not worthy or your wasting time. like what she says...

QUOTE:
I secretly wanted him to drool all over me

..? She want's him to think she is amazing... ????????? why aren’t' you ???

If you are a woman of your word and character... people will see that... - and to post this on her blog! wouldn't Mr. Love Alot read this?
would this not turn him off I know it would turn me off. I would not "drool " for noone! nor would I expect my partner to "drool" all over me.. again it's foolish.

QUOTE:
I don't know the answer but I have known that I wanted, or should I say, needed him to see me in my full power.

I know this had little, if nothing, to do with him. Sure, I secretly wanted him to think I was amazing. And yes, I secretly wanted him to drool all over me. But I was well aware that would probably not be how Mr. Love-A-Lot would react. And I was right.

This sounds all foolish! Especially coming from her a life coach at that!

And this is what doesn't make sense.. near the end of her blog she then writes

QUOTE:
I am not interested in Mr. Love-A-Lot thinking I am the greatest thing since sliced bread. I don't need him to puff me up or act like I'm important. That doesn't feel real to me or honest.

Ummm ok.. then what was all that other stuff she mentioned just a few paragraph up ????
“ I want him to drool all over me” " I want him to think I'm amazing " shheeshh - did she forget she mentioned that?

I'm sorry but I think she's cookoo.<br><br>Post edited by: Nadia, at: 2006/11/16 12:49

You're right about Rhonda being cookoo.
She wants him to &quot;drool all over&quot; her in one paragraph.
Then, in another, she doesn't want him to think &quot;she's the greatest thing since sliced bread&quot;?
Her writing sounds awfully schitzy, if you ask me.
She'd better figure out what she really wants.
Before he figures her out. And, runs for the hills.