Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

You are right about TJ of course...but she has a way to go yet.
Although I had not figured it out for myself, as soon as Rhonda said that she needs to...care...about others, I thought, right!! I never thought that she seemed the slightest bit interested in what the other HGs were telling her. She knows all the phrases, but does not employ them! Loved the car washing exercise...hope the lesson gets in eventually. So...I thought her grade was fair today...trying hard, keep working on it!

I missed the part where TJ got her grade - caught it right up to where Rhonda was shown writing it (sure were a lot of strokes!)
What was it???

She got a C plus!

Then Rhonda took her outside.. and helped her to use the C as an acronym for other things she needs to concentate on..

I think the first one was C is for Change, C is for Caring..

Can't remember them all... Maybe someone else can. She was then given a piece of paper with her assignment for the next day..(presumably tomorrow) in which she isn't allowed to give any opinions unless it's asked for.

I like TJ! I've seen her in a different light watching the reruns.

The dinner scene cracked me up! I liked the editing showing the HGs trying not to laugh.

I think TJ is a bit manic. She gets caught up in the process and can't help but over react.

I think she viewed the dinner as being for her so she wanted to share all of her insights with the ladies...thinking they wanted to hear it.

I laughed when she's trying to be nice and says...oh look a styrofoam party....it looks like tv dinners...she really did mean to be nice...that's something I would have said not realizing that it was really a slam!

Have a great day...I'm headed to CURVES!

That was shown a week or 2 ago... Rhonda did give Allison the chore to do something nice for TJ... so yes, it was supposed to be a gesture toward supporting her.. which she felt had/has been lacking. I think the timing was wrong... Could have just made tensions worse by forcing them to do something they weren't in the mood to do.. But maybe there was a lesson in that too. It clearly wound up being awkward for all of them.

TJ's comments about the plates could have been considered 'sarcasm'. I think they were trying to do a luau theme..

Was looking forward to this show today...re TJ's exercise of not being allowed to voice her opinions! Guess she could not manage it!
If anything else was said about it, that must have been when I left the room for a second!!
Pretty childish, mimicking Bethany's accent in confessional! If she keeps this up I may have trouble remembering that I ended up liking her!