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If I had a 12 year old, and found out that she was dressing in tight skimpy tops, and tight jeans with a big heart on the butt . . .

ya for sure, I didnt let my daughter dress like that.

ymimad wrote:

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Alllison for all her concern about having lost her boobs sure wears tops that dont cover her properly, even showing a scar. that i dont get.

I know this is the "Lisa" forum, but I want to comment on Allison too. I find it a bit suspicious that Allison is always saying she thinks she's ugly, etc., but she sure spends a lot of taking putting on makeup and dressing fruffy. It seems to me if she REALLY thought she looked bad she'd tone it down a bit. I think she likes it when people come back and say "OH YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL" etc.

Just my opinion!

happygirl wrote:

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Her parents were great i liked them, her mom was thin too.

I thought her parents were very secure, but I think THEY see Lisa as part of their trio. My parents were like that too. They made it very comfortable for me to cling to them.

It wasn't until I moved across country AWAY from them that I blossomed, met my husband and got married. I don't think I would have if I stayed near them.

Did you notice how Lisa hopped into gear when they came to town? She was scurrying around serving them and waiting on them hand and foot. Almost like she was their servant girl.

Watching the reruns gives me a whole new viewpoint of Lisa then the first time.

Sistine wrote:

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ymimad wrote:

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I think she likes it when people come back and say "OH YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL" etc.

Just my opinion!

Who doesn't?

Of course we all like to be told we're beautiful..but I hope we don't all walk around sniffling and crying and saying...oh I'm so fat and ugly...just so people will say no your not....

that's manipulative.