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Lisa was an interesting person to me. Sometimes she seemed really classy and intelligent, and other times she was annoying and inappropriate. I don't know, either way I found her kinda cool.

i thought so to.

she is intelligent. she is also deeply wounded and hasnt grown up.
anyway, did anyone have any thoughts about todays program when she was making jewelery? my thoughts are that, yes she behaved badly, BUT in a way, Rhonda set her up to fail. she only had like 5 hours to buy, make jewelery and then get to the street to sell them?
what if Rhonda had just given her 24 hours to do it. I believe she could have done it successfully. So although I dont like Lisa a whole lot, I really dont like Rhonda, and didtn like her all through the last season.

I think it was unfair, Lisa should have went and told her it was not done instead of leaving her there a hour and a half

ymimad wrote:

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she is intelligent. she is also deeply wounded and hasnt grown up.
anyway, did anyone have any thoughts about todays program when she was making jewelery? my thoughts are that, yes she behaved badly, BUT in a way, Rhonda set her up to fail. she only had like 5 hours to buy, make jewelery and then get to the street to sell them?
what if Rhonda had just given her 24 hours to do it. I believe she could have done it successfully. So although I dont like Lisa a whole lot, I really dont like Rhonda, and didtn like her all through the last season.

I wasn't too crazy about Rhonda today either...have never found
shaming people to be a particularly effective teaching tool. It
usually just produces resentment.
My daughter used to make her own jewelry, and talked me into
trying it...all those fiddly little beads drove me up the wall!! And,
BTW, she could only make one necklace per evening....so yes I
do think that Lisa was set up to fail.

making jewelry is hard--all those small pieces and such. i was rather shocked by rhonda's behavior towards lisa today--very inappropriate.