Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

I agree with the rest of you that Antonia shouldn't be pushed into a relationship that she doesn't want or simply isn't ready for, whichever the case may be they should respect her wishes on it.

However, it wasn't Jennifer's fault and Antonia had no right taking it out on her.. she totally dismissed her from the start. She was rude throughout and didn't even bother thanking her and politely excusing herself before she left. Instead she got up and it was done. Jennifer was asked to speak with her, it was FOR Antonia not Jennifer. For her to have treated her that way was totally wrong. Who does she think she is? This little 'it's all about Antonia' mindset of hers has got to stop. There was no reason whatsoever to treat Jennifer the way she did. It wouldn't have killed her to politely listen and thank her for her time and then go. Assignment completed without a hitch. That is the type close-mindedness I just cannot tolerate. She may not like what Jennifer had to say.. but if she were open-minded she would listen and actually hear what she was trying to tell her then make the ultimate decision for herself. She wanted no part of it, period. She wasted Jennifer's time and if she doesn't come down off her high horse she will be wasting SO's time and ours as well. Enough is enough Antonia. You can be so fun and witty and then your dark side comes through and it makes you look just awful. I hope you get the chance to really look at yourself and how you treat others.