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I loved that line myself.... I immediately thought of my ex-husband and sister. I still have to remind myself of that when dealing with the ex's tantrums.

I thought it was directed at Tess during one of her crying jags. I remember it made her stop short.

Iyanla must have used it more than once, because I really thought she said it to Tess during a fake cry spell too... but I could be wrong... once someone said it was too Allison in Vegas, I remembered the conversation.... but I still think she said it to Tess too at some point....

I also remember when IV was on Oprah she said some very powerful things... like when the pain of where you are at is greater than the fear of the unknown... it's time to change, it's time to get out of it. She also mentioned grieving for that dead relationship in order to move on. She also talked about staying where you are because of the fear of not being able to be loved by anyone. I just remember that whole show because it changed my life in ways that run deep. It put me on a path that even today it's a struggle and full of trials (exercises) but still I am happier and a at a greater self love than I did back then. Matter of fact everytime I have to face my ex... I carry a copy of Desiderata and some of her words of wisdom with me to help me through it. I have a deep respect and love for that Lady and very thankful that she shares her wisdom and not just keeps it to a tight circle of friends and family. A true Elder I will say that with that powerful insight... she almost scares me cuz there are days I still don't want to be called out for my little messes.

TigerRose wrote:

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... there are days I still don't want to be called out for my little messes.

I'm here with you, tr.p

TigerRose wrote:

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I also remember when IV was on Oprah she said some very powerful things... like when the pain of where you are at is greater than the fear of the unknown... it's time to change, it's time to get out of it. She also mentioned grieving for that dead relationship in order to move on. She also talked about staying where you are because of the fear of not being able to be loved by anyone. I just remember that whole show because it changed my life in ways that run deep. It put me on a path that even today it's a struggle and full of trials (exercises) but still I am happier and a at a greater self love than I did back then. Matter of fact everytime I have to face my ex... I carry a copy of Desiderata and some of her words of wisdom with me to help me through it. I have a deep respect and love for that Lady and very thankful that she shares her wisdom and not just keeps it to a tight circle of friends and family. A true Elder I will say that with that powerful insight... she almost scares me cuz there are days I still don't want to be called out for my little messes.

ABSOLUTE!!! I agree! End SO, get rid of Rhonda and Andy Pairge, Let's have an Iyanla Show,,,honest and REAL!

I say Rhonda and DR.STAN could do the show together they are a awesome team and cute together.