Valtina, you mentioned how genuinely warm & motherly IV can be with some of the women. Last season that was so very obvious w/Rachel - the one who's mother died of cancer when she was young - and Iyanla shared w/her (and everyone else) that she had just lost her daughter to cancer. Rachel's graduation was SO moving - because IV told Rachel that she had helped her to grieve over her daughter - and that Rachel was now like a daughter to her. Iyanla can be very in-your-face. But she also comes at you w/a wide open heart

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Talking about some of the best Iyanla quotes:
I just found this written down when I was doing my taxes

( it wasn't pretty). But this really made me

. It was said to one of the hg's last season during one of the group sessions:
"You are alone in your head w/out adult supervision
and you're running amuck!"
Does anybody remember who she said that to?
