Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

I am sure this will not be a popular opinion but I think Cassie needs to drop this obsession with her son. She just can not accept that this young man may not want to see her.

Her rationale is that she does not believe the kid knows she wants to meet him. She got a letter from the kid and the adoptive mother last year asking that she leave them alone, and she says she thinks its a fake.

She has had contact with the adoptive father and stepmother. Don't you think they would have mentioned to the kid that Cassie was looking for him?

I think when she says that she is not doing this for herself, but for the son, she is fooling herself. She has put feelers out and now she needs to just wait and see if he comes to her.

I think it should TOTALLY be up to the child if they want to search for their birth parents.