Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

no girls its a great question!!! I have delt with hearing this and, i realized a few months ago. That im not gay, but im not straight, and i found the awnser i was looking for. I'm an asexual! It means they dont care about sex, they want to connect with people on an emotional level, and there is no need for physical. I have no intent to have sex, its very hard to understand unless your an asexual. I could change when im older, but im happy with where i am right now!

Kudos to you jc for taking it all in stride.. I admire you for that.. just know that you do not have to answer personal questions such as that and no one will think badly if you don't..

Thanks so much Mystique. I'm really an open person. I don't mind, but i appreciate you making me feel comfortable here.

Hey JC - just wanted to drop you a line to tell you that right now, I think the lifestyle choice you have made is excellent. You are 16 or so. At this time in your life there are so many questions you have to answer about your future - college or trade school decisions being the big ones looming right now - sex should be the least of your concerns.

The decision to have a sexual aspect to your life comes with a great deal of responsibility. (Pregnancy, HIV, and STDs being some of the most common concerns). But sex also exposes you emotionally to situations that at this point in time you really don't need to burden yourself with.

And, as Mystique advised - you do not have to answer any questions that quite frankly are no one else's business.

Thanks Lunabeam! You all feel like my second home. I can't help but be myself, and be open. (actually better then my home ) But thanks i love you women. Your just all warm, and accepting. Well most of you. LOL. So glad i found this site!!

Well, many of know how that old "homelife" can be as we had rough ones too!!!! So........sending you (((hugs))) and treating you like our own, k????