Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

Why does everything on the show have to be picked apart? I have been watching this show since the beginning and Love every day of it. No matter what the womens problems are the coaches always get to the core of it whatever means they use. Broken relationships always hurt us the most and I think people should look at that before they question the coaches approach or reasoning. I personally hope this show stays on forever. I think more people would benefit from this and maybe they wouldn't be so critical.

I guess I'm not sure what you are asking......do you mean the show being picked apart here on the board?

For me, that is a huge part of my learning and processing and giving and taking different viewpoints. I think the show wouldn't serve half it's purpose if I just watched it. Discussing what happened, applying it to myself or "listening" to other posters on how they've applied it, and many times seeing the show itself thru a totally different view has taught me a LOT!!!!

If I didn't understand the question in your post, I'm sorry!! I just have enjoyed the boards and the discussions so much!!

I agree with both of you. There are times when we posters seem to "nit pick" beyond belief and it definitely gets a little crazy. However, if not for the highly analytical minds of our members and the mass compassion, relating and understanding that goes on, the show would mean nothing and teach us nothing. Picking apart a hg's weight, hair style, word choice, etc is not necessary. But delving into possible motivations can serve to teach us lots.

Isn't that what the world a great place? Different opinions, thoughts, and way of speaking? What would it be like if we were all alike? ICK!!!

The key word for me is open mind. We all have to be open to others point of view and then we might learn something.

If we never had any rain we would never appreciate the sunshine.

Some people like the drama, some don't. Some like to nit pick some don't.

Hello. I agree with Pamelina. For me, it's hard to read some of the extra nitpicky reactions, responses & opinions. Sure, variety is what makes us all unique & wonderful. But the life coaches, who seem to be really be picked apart sometimes quite negatively on these posts, have not only been through so much difficulty in their own lives, but are here, on the other side of their traumas, open & loving & wanting so much for the houseguests to be free within themselves as well. I think they rock! Yep, it's all good, either way, but it seems a waste of time & energy to be so hard on the life coaches as sometimes people are. Such is life, huh? Well, love & peace to all.

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