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netty wrote:

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Wasn't she supposed to take tennis lessons too?

I had kept this episode on my DVR.

No, tennis lessons weren't part of her 'backbone building' exercises. They may have talked about it, but when it came down to the day of the RB, or the day after, before she left, she sat with Rhonda looking at her 'backbone'.

Now, of course, lisa may have *chosen* to 'misunderstand' AGAIN, and because she, at some time, talked about tennis lessons, has decided to go with this one. <GEEEZE LOUISE> Can this woman do *anything* they ask?

1. She was to redo her condo, fix it up and clean it out. (I really don't think 'painting a room' qualifies, but as some have mentioned, they are trying to 'save face' with her.)

2. She was to throw a dinner party. (To show she learned something about cooking, I guess.)

3. She was to get a job. (A part time job, possibly, but only after Rhonda's coaxing.)

MaryBeth

From the friend of lisa's saying that she never got in touch with the other HGs, (even tho she finally called lisa yesterday, saying she didn't want to call until she had done *something*, my goodness, woman, (lisa), grow up!!!), it just reconfirms my picture of lisa. She's selfish, self-centered, self loving, and doesn't care a whit of what others want/feel/need from her, even her good friends!

It really sounds to me that "alleycrash" is Lisa!!! Honestly, I think she called Lisa2 when she got back from her rendevous with Mr.I. It was posted that "she has a 'nice' man now-criminal defense attorney"??? THAT definately sounds like Lisa. Trying to impress with a label "criminal defense attorney". Whatever...I don't care-they will let her graduate. (Which I think is a JOKE) She deserves NOTHING. I am OVER Lisa and "her being her". Lets move on...we should NOT waste anymore of our time with her!!!!!!

This is getting more hysterical by the day! I am not Lisa, but a friend and fan. Its obvious she had an element of entertainment - these post are the proof!

Lisa lives in Miami, a market where the show is not even aired! So it is very easy to 'check out' when you don't even have to look at it! -- and thank goodness she doesn't have to re-live some of the ridiculous humiliation that Rhonda put her through! i.e. baby costume!?!?!

FYI, her last name starts with N not M as I have seen on many posts - not that it really matters.

I'm outta here. Enjoy your boards, its been fun.

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staying positive said:
"I PERSONALLY HAVE NO RIGHT TO PUBLICLY JUDGE ANOTHER SISTER:"
Really? Isn't that what YOU ARE doing in this post, about other posters?

"WOW...... IM SHOCKED HOW SOME PEOPLE GET SO ANGRY...AT
SOMEONE THEY DONT EVEN KNOW.....AND FORGET THAT WE ONLY SEE
A LITTLE PART OF THERE DAY.."
Judgement!

"I FEEL THE PREMIS OF THE SHOW SHOULD SET A STANDARD OF HAVING
COMPASSION,AND GRACE WITH ONE ANOTHER...OUR SISTERS..NOT ACCUSING
THINGS...SUCH AS LYING ABOUT BEING MOLESTED...OR ....SETTING UP
WEBSITES FOR SELF GAIN..OR DECIDING A PERSON IS WORTHLESS...WOW..."
This is only how YOU percieve how this should go!

"I THINK EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO THERE OWN BELIEFS...
Exactly! Then let us have our own right to speak how we see things.
Their is no right or wrong here. That is why it is called a "message board"
to allow people to come on here and discuss their own feelings about the
show, the hg's etc. Not everyone will EVER agree on the same things. This
is America.....freedom of speech!

"DONT YOU THINK SHE MAY LOOK HERE...AND TO HEAR SO MANY ACCUSE
HER OF THINGS WITHOUT EVIDENCE...WOW"
Of course they do, but they also know going into a reality show, they are putting
themselves out their to be judged by all. They signed on for this on there own.
They know what they are getting themselves into. You don't want to be judged
publicly...than don't go on a reality show!

Judgement goes both ways... for you to get upset (not to mention, SHOUT) at
someone who doesn't agree with you, that is judgement. Pot calling kettle black.
You should be able to respect EVERYONES opinions, and just agree to disagree.
everyone has the right to their own opinion, as well as you. So let it go.

staying positive.....Is this you, Lisa?

Well it seems as though Alleycrash was right on the money...everything she said was true. I laughed my a$$ off when Rhonda was in the elevator at her condo. She turned and looked at the camera and said "Lisa better be home".....as if she would be totally pissed if she weren't...but Lisa definately did NOT know Rhonda was coming. It was funny watching Lisa wet herself when she answered the door to find Rhonda, and squirming when Rhonda went through her home, looking at all the mess. Typical excuses flowed form her mouth, "I was in a hurry", "no one sees this bathroom"..and so on.... She WAS getting ready for her dinner party, and was waiting on a couple more friends to arrive when Rhonda showed up. They did drink quite a bit, although I didn't see Rhonda being "evil" I saw Rhonda being Rhonda. She did paint her room fuscha, take tennis lessons, and told Rhonda she got a job. The next morning, they met with her parents. Her fathr claimed he tried to give Lisa money, but she refused it. (YEAH RIGHT DAD!) Rhonda asked them if they thought Lisa had changed and earned the right to graduate, both mommy and daddy chimed in at the same time with a big loud "YES"!
Rhonda is now waiting for 3 references from friends that were NOT at the dinner party. Peachy...she's gonna graduate. UGH!