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ceilidh wrote:

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My heart goes out to all who are loosing or have lost as parent. I lost my mother, six weeks ago. I has always hoped that we would have "a talk", "any sincere talk" It never happened. It never will.
She never knew me, nor me her. May she rest in peace.

Lauren, we have butted heads over certain HGs before, but I must tell you that my heart goes out to you with this post. Might I suggest, with the best of intentions, that you can still talk to your
mother...I believe that she will hear you. God bless...x

Thank You Ceilidh :)

I look at our "difference of opinon" as just that, not personal, just expressing ourselves. We have clashed on some opinions, but, we have always been respectful.....Peace....Lauren

What I meant was....perhaps "saying" what you need to say
would be helpful to you...ease your heart a little. Peace to you
also..x

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LaurenB wrote:

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My heart goes out to all who are loosing or have lost as parent. I lost my mother, six weeks ago. I has always hoped that we would have "a talk", "any sincere talk" It never happened. It never will.
She never knew me, nor me her. May she rest in peace.

*****hugs*****

I'm sorry you're going through this. I've made peace with the fact that I also will face this someday.

I have lost both my father and mother but I didn't grieve until I lost my sister last year. I didn't know either of my parents well as my dad was an alcoholic and my mother was unaffectionate. She tried, I guess, but didn't succeed in giving any love to her three children. I didn't miss her when she passed away 6 or 7 years ago (I don't even know what year she passed as it is not important to me). Neither do I know what year my father passed.

But my sister passed away on August 31st, 2005 and I've missed her every day and can only hope there is an after life and that she is now happy and arthritis free.

*****hugs***** jhal!!!!

You are not alone, I just wanted you to know that!! You're in my thoughts and prayers too!!

Thank you, My mother and I were 2 peas in a pod (if you know what that means lol). My whole family is disfunctally in many ways. Well you know money issues getting worse due to me giving up my 5 yr job due to the way I was treated when she got sick then died ( promised pay then the day before told not recieving). Now I am trying to remeber all she taught, and things she still tells me to keep from falling further depressing. I will try some of helpful things that I read from all.... thanks for all replyies MY thoughts and prayers are out to all of you too

Dear zizzy, hello, my name is Sue. Known on here as happytrails_200618. I can and can't relate to losing a parent. my parents wern't even in my life when I was ounger, and really they still aren't, I don't know whrere my dad is, and my mom is in Adersivlle, Goergia. I was raised by my Grandparents, and like you couldn't imagen my life without them in it, but always remember that your mother is always watching over you and that you can talk to her whenever you would like. But even more importantly, rember that Jesus is always avaliable adn that your mother is with him and way better off. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I don't konw if you believe in God or of you even read the BIBLE, but either way, read Psalm 23. It really helped me when a really good friend of mine passed away suddenly.

GODBLESS AND TAKE CARE,
Sue