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Re:ground zero vs private moment 3 Years, 2 Months ago Karma: 0  
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I must say, that I greatly appreciate how the posters here respond. It feels like we all care about the show and are respectful to the other posters. Its a GREAT change from last years official board and the new one they are using this year.
I agree with you asparagus. This is a wonderful board and everyone is very respectful to one another.

I also agree that both women acted properly and have the right to their own feelings and that is okay.
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Then again, Jessica needs to understand and accept that the world is not going to come to ATTENTION! and be in-step with her. Impossible! It is being self-absorbed of her to expect that She can't continue pouting each time someone does not say the 'right' thing. Her attitude of entitlement makes it difficult to get close to her if it means the ladies have to be walking on eggshells. I can see them opting to avoid her, lest they trigger something. I would. Again, her parents, loving as they may have been, did her major disservice by raising her in a bubble and not preparing her to live in the real world.


I TOTALLY agree - sometimes she acts like she was the only one affected, like she is entitled to more than the other women in the house She also seems like she could be a bit of a pot stirrer, as we saw in her conversation with Christina before the BOR.
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Then again, Jessica needs to understand and accept that the world is not going to come to ATTENTION! and be in-step with her. Impossible! It is being self-absorbed of her to expect that, without explaining herself to the ladies, that they would know where she is and what she needs at any given moment. She can't continue pouting each time someone does not say the 'right' thing. Her attitude of entitlement makes it difficult to get close to her if it means the ladies have to be walking on eggshells. I can see them opting to avoid her, lest they trigger something. I would. Again, her parents, loving as they may have been, did her major disservice by raising her in a bubble and not preparing her to live in the real world.


Jackee< I agree with you very much. I feel so sad for Jessica, but I see the walking on egg shells thing. I beleive she had said she was spoiled growing up, and I think that has alot to do with how she acts at times.Plus people dont want to ruffle her feathers due to the major tragedy that she went through.
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I know it's still early in Jessica's process, but I do hope one of the things they have her do is to meet with a grief support group specific to her needs. She does need to grieve and get what she needs, but then needs to see that connecting with others and reaching out can help her so much!!
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Re:ground zero vs private moment 3 Years, 2 Months ago Karma: 15  
It was very sad to see Allison upset by the events that hapened. allison was only trying to be supportive and it backfired big time! But the fact that Allison was trying to be supportive of Jessica should have been praised more rather than make her feel like she is 6 inches tall. I hope that Jessica can grow and get past this tragic day in her life.
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I think Allison herself is the one making her feel 6 inches tall...
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