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I am really beginning to dislike this woman. I don't believe she has a bit of sincerity and she likes to talk about the other women behind their backs. She tells Rhonda she thought she might have known she wasn't being compliant with her assignment, she blamed Alison for wearing the wig, now that Christina has told her story she said she doesn't trust her (huh? at least she can tell the truth), and then she and Jill are hooting over the definition of "prostitute" in front of Christina. She's the one who shouldn't be trusted. Rhonda should put her back in the baby dress!

I am not a big fan of Lisa's. Maybe it's just me but, I don't think Lisa " Get's It " ?? And I'm not sure if she'll change wants she leaves the show? But, then again she might surprise me. Lets hope so.

I'm glad someone else feels this way, I was starting to think I was nuts for thinking Lisa is being completely inauthentic. I really think it's going to take more than putting her on a baby dress to give her a reality check. She also seems very arrogant lately as if she was completely changed by one assignment and she knows the ways of healing now. This is just my opinion eithers shes going to have an amazing breakthrough somehow, or she won't be here for long. I have so much more respect and compassion for TJ than her because even though TJ doesn't have very good communicating skillsI do think she is genuinly trying to better herself. I feel her behavior with Jill today infront of Christina was way more insenstive that TJ did to Jessica. Lisa and Jill know better, TJ doesn't at this point.

I think Lisa also shows a lot signs of ADD too. In a lot of ways she is even worse than TJ when it comes to communicating and social skills. Lisa doesn't get things either and she doesn't really seem to care that she doesn't get things. TJ wants to change because she realizes her actions affect others.

It really upsets me how quick Lisa is to jump on TJ yet she does the same thing. I know she is beginning to realize that she sees a lot of herself in TJ. Maybe I'm more upset at the fact that the other woman have no issue calling TJ out things she says but not Lisa.

I think part of it is because they know TJ won't really fight back. She for the most part accepts that she is wrong even if she doesn't fully understand why. Lisa is just used to having her own way...

I absolutely agree, Jazzy. TJ shows genuine remorse although I'm pretty sure she doesn't herself understand why she says the things she says. I could see on her face yesterday that she felt concern for Christina when Jill and Lisa were laughing hysterically about the word prostitute. As for her conversation with Jessica, she knew what she said was wrong, she put her hand over her mouth right away. She just doesn't say the right words for what she's thinking. I have a lot of compassion for Jessica, but she needs to realize that the intent in Lisa's words was not malicious, just said without thinking. I hope the coaches call out Lisa and Jill on what they said, and give TJ the credit she deserves. I also agree that Lisa thinks she gets it all already (her hugs to Rhonda are so fake) but TJ takes it from everyone and is trying to learn. I think Lisa is all about Lisa.

Yeah..I think Lisa probably feels she gets it...but unfortunately, I don't think she has allowed herself to be vulnerable and exposed enough to have had any major epiphanies ...I dont think she'll really have gotten it until that happens..She still has time...