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Abandonment 4 Years ago Karma: 12  
Do you think the women will have abandonment issues after Deborah is gone? She represented all the fear and hurt that many of the women were expressing, coming from their own troubled childhood, especially the fathers.

How will Jennier handle it? Will she just be glad she is gone, or relate it to her own father leaving her when she was young? Kim too, she was young when her father left. I hope the ladies can learn from this, and it not be a stumbling block for them.

I was in a situation with a group of women seeking help. I befriended one lady. She was there on her own, and just wanted to sleep! I got to talking with her, and we really connected, and she opened up. The next few days she was gone! She said that it was getting too real for her, and she had to leave. I felt so responsible for her leaving, I felt so bad! The counselors said it wasn't my fault, she had her own issues to deal with. They were right, but I did not see it at the time.

I hope the ladies in the house don't blame themselves for Deborah choosing to leave.
It got too real for her, and she couldn't face her problems head on.
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