Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

Hi everyone
Well after living here my entire life my husband and I are taking the big step and moving to anouther part of our province.
We are moving to our dream retirement home a hobby farm.
When we leave in a few weeks we will be leaving behind my daughter and her husband along with our 18 month old grandson.
Our 6 year old grandson by my son.
And our oldest daughter just left yesterday to drive across country to the west coast, to start a new life with her husband in Vancouver.

How do you cope with all these changes and not become a cry baby??
I am happy but my inner feelings are that I really do not want to leave the kids and grandsons behind!
My husband thinks I am over reacting to the move and should just have happy thoughts of the new home and all the things we have waited for for 30 years married.

Am I being stupid to feel this way?
Can anyone give me tips on how to cope with this move before I drive my hubby nuts.
Thanks