Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

I was REALLY disappointed with these two today. They were on a role and then somehow they got arrogant. Lou really has put way too much energy into this assignment, I would think after all they have learned they would be willing to accept a challenge. Meh I don't get it, but it really upset me if I was one of the other couples I would of felt pretty darn betrayed....

I agree we saw a different side of them today. I was really surprised when this came out so strong. Can't wait until tomorrow's episode! I would of felt the same way the other couples did.

But, we have to wonder, is this the "true" colors surfacing that when things get tough, how do they react to the situation?? This is the whole purpose of the exercise.

We'll see what the Life Coach's have in mind??!!

I thought it was odd how Lou kept saying "I get it". If he get's it, then he should be able to act on it by doing the exercise. Makes you wonder who cleans up when their little girl gets sick. I have felt all along that Lou's answers were too pat. Like he had watched SO and knew all the answers before they were asked.

It would seem I'm in the minority here, but I'm with Lou! I get the metaphor, but it was neither his disgusting mess, nor his wife's. Why should they clean it? I'd probably toss my cookies if I had to clean it.

Now, saying it was okay for the other couples may have been a low blow, but I think more to his point was that it was their choice and as far as he was concerned, they could've all rebelled on this one!

Maggi32 wrote:

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I agree we saw a different side of them today. I was really surprised when this came out so strong. Can't wait until tomorrow's episode! I would of felt the same way the other couples did.

But, we have to wonder, is this the "true" colors surfacing that when things get tough, how do they react to the situation?? This is the whole purpose of the exercise.

We'll see what the Life Coach's have in mind??!! :sick:

Glad you brought that up, I am starting see that they may of set this up to spark a reaction. Initially Lou's reaction was okay but eventually with the the coaches telling him to trust the process and to commit to it that there was a need to do this excercise. Personally in my life it's so much easier to say something than do it. Actions seem to speak louder than words in my book. You got to strap in and enjoy the ride because in the end you might learn something from it. So boo hoo Lou get over it! Hehe!

Lou may get the metaphor...but he needs to get the rules:..You do ALL assignments assigned..