Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

I feel for both Siamon and Kacie. I think the releationship gives her the structure and security she needs but has also become stifeling to her. Siamon just does not know how to open up but seems to be trying a bit.
I saw the salsa differently. I saw it as a lesson in body language communication and it is supposed to be a passionate dance. Kacie was so busy doing the trainer's job she missed that and Siamon followed his old pattern of withdrawel. Total withdrawel. I don't think either one learned the passion that can be communicated with out saying a word.

THANK YOU Briar, for telling it like it is!

Kacie did slow down the process on the dance floor with her critisisms on Simon's dancing. I think we're going to see Kacie resist more than Simon, simply because she is not ready to trust him yet. And that is on her - as difficult as Simon is.

I don't think we should pity Kacie too much in the relationship (her past, yes, absolutely) because her fear and distrust triggers a lot of bad behaviour in Simon, the same way he triggers fear in her.

I think Simon could really surprise everybody. I think he once he learns knew skill and practices using them he may change his ways. I just don't think he knows any differently.

Thank you .
I do think this couple will really get somewhere in the house. Simon does try to pratice and Kacie does want things to get better for them.
Spoilerish perhaps:
Iyanala stated something today that really hit home .. my home! Haha, to these two. Hes spoiled and she did it. OOoooo. That has been said to me oh yes.
I was pleased these two saw the need for medeation and got it. I think we are going to see a lot of growth with these two.

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I think Simon could really surprise everybody. I think he once he learns knew skill and practices using them he may change his ways. I just don't think he knows any differently.

Even though Simon works my nerves at times. I agree with you.
Next week will be juicy.

back up off the dude yall.......all I know is people are more Negative than they are Nice....... Rock on Simon, I beleive in you......u get a cheer from me......peace