Starting Over Talk - Peer Coaching Support Site

I agree 2cents. I was wanting to watch to see how they helped Jacklyn get through this painful process. But, in return saw that they are putting blame on her instead, which I do agree that if she is going to be with Michael after he cheated she does need to get passed this BUT, also feel maybe she doesn't know how? I know myself it is one of the hardest things to go through and deal with. To even find yourself wanting to trust again is hard as well. Maybe it's just me but, I feel they are making Jacklyn look like the bad guy here? She has been wounded and needs to heal, Then learn to quit beating him up over him cheating on her and if she can't get over it then maybe they both need to move on. But thats just my opinion.

Maybe they aren't showing it....

But the coaches need to show Jackylyn how to trust again.You just can't say "Do it.Get over it.It's your problem not his."



I agree Babyface...show them how to deal with the infidelity first...he needs to know how it hurt..them move on.

That's right...examine why the infidelity happened in the first place, then explore whether those reasons still exist or not. She will let it go when she's ready to trust again.

Well, today is Jacylyn's big BR day! They show her going through the ringer - but I honestly think she will get an A. Looking back on the week, I think she's done very well.
Although I feel it's a little backwords, the fact she's getting the point about letting go of the punishment, is very impressive.
At first, I wondered if Jacylyn was a little dim for Starting Over - but I'm beginning to think she's one of the smartest ones there.

Of all the couples I think that these two have the most work to do. It just seems like every time I see them, it seems like they are on the edge, they don't really know if they can stay toghether. I wonder if they will leave the house engaged or if they will even be toghether. I hope it works out for them. And I agree that Jacylyn has every right to be upset, I mean it takes some poeple longer than others to get over being cheated on, and I don't think they put enough responsibility on him for it.

This couple definately gets on my nerves. I have to fast forward through everytime she cries. I can't buy into her story. She seems to me like she is just there for the show...alot like Tess.