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I am so glad you understand. And I don't want to be mean to Tess or her family. She just rubbed me the wrong way.

hsmom wrote:

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I was not a fan of her, I have to say.

had a bad day MOM till i saw a whole family get blown away
alll of my problems were gone then ( me gulf vet desert storm) jus have opinion not mean

Can't see where i am mean, jus my opinion ? should i have a stern opinion... let me know... i felt hurt by tess,
she blatantly used the show and all the woman who watch and cared for her she wasted wasted all of our time

what about that....
there is still banter about her and she is gone ....
she really made african american women look bad as an example on tv

all i was saying is that we don't need some tv big wig
saying " wow she is jus like amorosa how hot !!!! that is all you see on tv now less alone reality tv. even Haley berry( academy award winng actress) complained that there aren't good relos for black women on tv or movies

there are enough black sisters on tv have bad roles that are not representative of most progressive blacks but i guess If you are not privy to be black you may think i am making tooooo much of it all and everything is rosy well tess rubbed me the wrong way and i thought all of you women could ofhad a better example of a blackwoman on reality tv insted of the usual suspects.

so sorry to those who need an apology ...................

2cents wrote:

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.It was "The All About Tess Show" :x :dry:

2 B)

So do you have some insider info on her talk 2?

Do you know the" saying walk in my shoes"
well i you were a black woman and it was hard enough to see yourself on tv portrayed right; then....if you say something about it some people will think that you have an "inferority comlplex " because you say somthing about it.. well it is a lost feling . all of those womenyou mentioned are good examples i espically like rain now she is more closer to reality than tess or towanda don"t get m,e wrong i liked towanda but i started seeing through her right away . then the bubble burst with CRIMinal CHARGES so i guess i am like some black people that see it differently and things are ok out there and everything is jaded

do me a favor find a afican american woman yourself
and that you feel you can engauge and aske her for enlightenment on what SHE thinksABOUT THIS SUBJECT IF she SAYS i am wrong i will apologize i will do it now FOR those that need it
i am sorry if what i said offended any one not my purpose here.
truly sorry if it offended

THAT IS ALL THYAT I SAID I THINK.. IN MY OWN WAY.
THANK YOU GOD BLESS YOU