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KPW1956 wrote:

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We will never know... She'd only been in the house a month and she told TJ she'd had a period about 2 weeks before coming.. So IF she were pregnant, she would have conceived about the time she came in... She did have a boyfriend back home named Paul at the time. Presumably it would be his...

But as you will soon find out... (or I thought it was determined yesterday but I missed the first few minutes..) She's not pg.

Thanks for that! I was starting to think I had imagined her saying that she was not pregnant!!!!

Supposedly, she was sleeping with one of the camera men throughout the entire taping. I'm also guessing that this was the big secret she told ylanya.

Oooh I don' t think so. If she was ever found out to be having an affair with a crew member...well you remember what happened to Sommer.

No I think Christina's secret was something bad that happened in Las Vegas. Like she was beaten or raped or involved in a crime against her will.

OnAWhim wrote:

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Oooh I don' t think so. If she was ever found out to be having an affair with a crew member...well you remember what happened to Sommer.

No I think Christina's secret was something bad that happened in Las Vegas. Like she was beaten or raped or involved in a crime against her will.

You're right I think if it was anythin witha crew member, or something that happened on the show, she would have bee kicked off!!
We can speculate all we want what her secret might be, I Like you think it was somehting in her past, like drugs or something(again pure speculation!!!)
My other feeling though is her big secret might have been her thinking she was pregnant, Iyanla never said anything, but if I remember right, soon after she gave Iyanla the note, that is when all the stuff (inconfessional and so forth) about her maybe being pregnant came out(going completely on memory... she could have gave Iyanla the note with her secret after all of this)
That was just another one of my theories, cause like I said(as far a memory recalls..." there was nothing mentioned, then she gives Iyanla this note with her secret, and then we here all this that she might be pregnant?? another reason I think this might me the BIG secret is christina said she was so scared to tell Iyanla this, and then Iyanla says "well we will just have to take care of this, face it head on"(or something to that effect) so I am assuming taking the test!!!

anyway sorry to blab on I am just stating the are a MILLION things it could be, it never came right out and said what it was, that is just my speculation on things, I think her big secret WAS the whole pregnancy scare!! but so I can be me sure can someone please refresh my memory and tell me did she give Iyanla the "secret" note BEFORE or AFTER the whole pregnancy scare?? thanks

oh one thing I forgot to put in there whith my blabbing was the reason I think she was so scared to tell Iyanla about this, and that it was a big secret is, after all she was in the house to "stop the hustle," make a better life for her and her son, and then all along she thinks she might be pregnant...another person to take care of, which if your tight on money it would be easy to fall in your old ways, not to mention she needed to get honest with herself and Iyanla, so I think she was laying it all out on the table!!