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I had to rewind my tape several times yesterday watching yesterdays show.
Okay the scene is everybody has a letter on their chests and going around saying what they are ashamed of that they did in their past and everyone shared. They got to Jennifer and she said she rather not. Before group was over Rhonda asked Jennifer again and kim spoke up saying she thinks she knows what it is that jennifer doesn't want to say because Jennifer said if she said it, that would mean she is that and Kim say "Jennifer is it that you cheated on someone? No one will judge you".
Jennifer says something and again Kim says to her, "It's okay, it's okay, no one will judge for that."

THE NERVE OF KIM!!!!!
Wouldn't Jennifer be the same thing as Sommer but only Sommer screwed a married man.??
To me cheating is cheating no matter married or not. If your the cheater your a cheater period. So it's okay for
Jennifer because she didn't do it with a married man but it's not okay for Sommer because she did?
I don't get it!!!!!
Grrrrrrrrr, I feel for Sommer. She really did have a hard time with the other HG's from the get go and like Sommer said, she will never live it down exspecially in the house she won't....... That's one regret she wishes never happened and wishes they all would forgive her. Why can't they? they did with Jennifer?
2 face I feel.
Lanie

sommer was verbally and emotionally spanked by towanda and kim the life coaches encouraged it. she had to beg towanda for her friendship and forgiveness.

I don't know about T. I thought she was inspiring the first time I saw her, but now watching the repeats of season 2 and I am taping them all, I find her to be "la de da" attitude coming out of her and I never heard before when she was talking her to her hubby and how she talked about IV. Poor Sommer, finally it seems like T got over the "other woman" in the group yesterday. Maybe things will be better for Sommer now, but if I can remember, I doubt it