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Interesting... In reading her blogs I see a women not so different from most of us...who still goes through the hesitations and fears that many of us do when doing something new.

One thing worth noting... Is that she mentions the final seminar for the Fearless Foundation weekend in Nov. (in Canada)... what's mentionable or worth speculating about...is that she says it will be the last one in 2006 and indefinitely depending on what happens 'in her life'..

One could speculate maybe she is pondering marriage or maybe a new opportunity to develop another SO type show. Maybe both!
http://www.fearlessliving.org/blog/rhonda

My impression of her blog? She wants to make some local friends. None of her good friends live in Colorado. And, neither does Andy Paige, thank goodness. Now, she's getting Mr Love-a-Lot's wardrobe suggestions. And, I'll bet his taste is much better than Andy's! Should she wear a dress or jeans to the networking event? Mr Love-a-Lot suggested jeans. She's been living with him for several months now. I wonder why she bought herself a condo. In case one of them "needs some space"?

i was thinking the exact same thing. if you were living together in a happy relationship why would you go out and buy yourself a condo? maybe it's an investment, but it seems like her relationship has a lot of issues. if you have to go to counseling with his ex because they aren't on speaking terms and have a very young child, i would be very careful in that situation.

Whenever I am dating someone, I usually meet the man's friends, that includes their wives' and girlfriend's. We all go out together at times and then we do things as just the girls or just the guys or sometimes as couples. This makes me wonder about Mr. Love-A-Lot. Doesn't he have friends in the area?

It kinda makes me sad that Rhonda by her own admission is isolated. She is such a bundle of energy and fun. She is a great gal to chat with, catch a movie, go for a workout. I feel bad for her. She should be surrounded with gal pals.

Is she really suited for rocky mountain life or better suited for LA? Does she live in the city or in a rural area? I like to visit peaceful places, but, I don't think I could live outside of a large city. My city is the capitol of my state, but still has a very hometown feel to it. I like the hustle and bustle of city life, plus there is so much to do.

I think Rhonda is cut out to be in the spotlight and maybe she is missing that. I certainly hope she gets her groove on and hits some airwaves somewhere.

I just don't know about that Mr. Love-A-Lot. Perhaps I am too overprotective of Rhonda. She deserves the best. I just get a funny feeling everytime I read something she wrote about him. Isn't that crazy? I'm not sure why. I guess time will tell.

I can really relate to what she was talking about in her blog. I work from home and do a lot business related networking but it's hard to go out just for the sake of meeting friends. I honestly can't remember the last time I made a friend who wasn't related to school or business. I don't have any children yet either so there's one less way for me to meet people.

anaya17392 wrote:

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i was thinking the exact same thing. if you were living together in a happy relationship why would you go out and buy yourself a condo? maybe it's an investment, but it seems like her relationship has a lot of issues. if you have to go to counseling with his ex because they aren't on speaking terms and have a very young child, i would be very careful in that situation.

It's pretty obvious, from some of Rhonda's earlier blogs, that her relationship has had some issues. A few blogs back, Mr Love-a-Lot wanted some space. And, so did she, at times. But, when he wanted it, she wasn't sure how to take it. In the next blog, they're going to counselling with his ex-wife. The following blog describes him taking her rock-climbing. And, in her latest blog, Rhonda admits that they've been living together since before she bought the condo. Why buy it? In case things don't work out, I suspect. So she'll still have a roof over her head.