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Hi There Fans of the Bachelor,

I know I am not the only one who watched the show this time!
I just watched the final show of the batchelor last evening. I was so happy that he picked Tessa! I definitely think he made the right choice! The fact that he had to work to get her made her all the more intriguing to him- I think.
He did seem to have quite a passionate connection with Bevin, but I think that things weren't going anywhere in the end. With Tessa you could see that their relationship was growing more everytime they spent together, so I think the prospects of the future appealed to a dreamer like him!
I never did get to see the episode where he took them both home to met his family. It sounded like Tessa had a real connection with his sister. Did anyone else see this episode? What did you all think of it?
Let me know, I'll be back tomorrow!

Needle nurse wrote:

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Hi There Fans of the Bachelor,

I know I am not the only one who watched the show this time!
I just watched the final show of the batchelor last evening. I was so happy that he picked Tessa! I definitely think he made the right choice! The fact that he had to work to get her made her all the more intriguing to him- I think.
He did seem to have quite a passionate connection with Bevin, but I think that things weren't going anywhere in the end. With Tessa you could see that their relationship was growing more everytime they spent together, so I think the prospects of the future appealed to a dreamer like him!
I never did get to see the episode where he took them both home to met his family. It sounded like Tessa had a real connection with his sister. Did anyone else see this episode? What did you all think of it?
Let me know, I'll be back tomorrow!B)

I'm a romantic at heart... I was thrilled that he picked Tessa although until the end it seemed like he would pick Bevin.

Andy's family seemed to like both girls... the sister, however, seemed to have a connection with Tessa.

All in all... I was very pleased with the finale... hope they both make it... they seem to be a sweet couple.

I only watched the finale. I have noticed from the past that the one that seems as if they are going to be picked is usually not picked. I think they set it up that way, which to me is very cruel.

Maybe you had to see the entire season, but even though it is a game, I wouldn't want to be engaged with a man who hours earlier told another woman that he loved her and kissed the other woman with more gusto than me. He really fooled Bevin and hurt her so much. I could feel that woman's pain. AND she is still in pain. Did you see the show the next night for the reunion? As Bevin sat and talked to this man she still fought back the tears. I think she really fell for this guy and trusted his words and actions.

Did you see the couple on The View? Tessa said she did NOT watch the finale. Someone on there told her not to...that it would bother her. I bet she does and I bet it does bother her.

I love you too came off his lips to easy for my taste.

I do consider myself a romantic, but the back and forth thing, especially in the end was just too sad for my taste.

I loved his family. I think they liked both girls. I think they would have accepted either choice.

I do wish them well. I guess time will tell.

Debby wrote:

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I only watched the finale. I have noticed from the past that the one that seems as if they are going to be picked is usually not picked. I think they set it up that way, which to me is very cruel.

Maybe you had to see the entire season, but even though it is a game, I wouldn't want to be engaged with a man who hours earlier told another woman that he loved her and kissed the other woman with more gusto than me. He really fooled Bevin and hurt her so much. I could feel that woman's pain. AND she is still in pain. Did you see the show the next night for the reunion? As Bevin sat and talked to this man she still fought back the tears. I think she really fell for this guy and trusted his words and actions.

Did you see the couple on The View? Tessa said she did NOT watch the finale. Someone on there told her not to...that it would bother her. I bet she does and I bet it does bother her.

I love you too came off his lips to easy for my taste.

I do consider myself a romantic, but the back and forth thing, especially in the end was just too sad for my taste.

I loved his family. I think they liked both girls. I think they would have accepted either choice.

I do wish them well. I guess time will tell.

I agree that "I love you" came out of Andy's mouth too much... I'm not sure if it was just his clumsy attempt at trying too hard in front of the cameras to make the relationships real... but it came across as insincere.

It was painful to watch Bevin when she was rejected as it is to watch all the hopefuls each year.

During the show... Bevin was never chosen to go on an individual date with Andy... I remember thinking that the show kept talking about their chemistry... why didn't he ask her out? Tessa, however, was chosen for the "Pretty Woman" date... LOL.

These two are just starting out with their romance... off camera and the real world will play out the next chapter... LOL. I wish them well.