Debby,
I love Matt too!! I just also can really relate to Amy with kids and house and work and hubby's needs sometimes!!!!! But I do love that whole family for it's "normalness".................isn't that what it's really about?? To show just that.................how families all are normally functional and crazy in many ways??!!!
RE: the messy house. Well..........I struggle with this, but because of health issues, a messy hubby and homeschooling and such a tiny house. Really, we have far less "stuff" than almost anyone I know....but simply no space, no garage, no basement. Now.......I have dejunked and done some amazing changes thanks to Flylady. But I also realize that much of the clutter comes from the perfectionist in me that gives up since it can't be Better Homes and Gardens!!!
I also have always made no secret of putting chores, etc. behind time with my family. Yes, it's no excuse and a balance must be struck (no we've NEVER lived in a pigsty nor filth!!!!!!) but like any other aspect in life...........some of us have the ability to be more organized and some of us struggle. I do understand that, and yet, I also would never allow others to see a mess, nor to have my kids subjected to dirt and germs and filth.
ETA..........don't know how it double posted, sorry!!

<br><br>Post edited by: grizzlys4, at: 2006/10/24 22:16